TOTALLY WIN AT LOVE: Smart Talk About Sex and Relationships ...

Topic: positive communication in relationships
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Stuck with a negative attitude? Attracting negative people into your life? This 3 part series gives you 3 fun, fast, and powerful strategies to create an optimistic attitude and to bring positive people into your life. Catch up on Step 1 here: Banish Negativity- Step 1 of 3
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Step 2. React To Negatives By Giving The Opposite Positive Action.
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If you are in the habit of giving out positive thoughts and actions to others and still receive negatives, what do you do? Here it is. Make a note. When you receive an unwarranted negative, immediately give out the opposite to someone else who needs it, in fact give it out to as many people as possible. For example:

• ?If I receive unfair criticism, I will go out and give praise to anyone who needs an encouraging word.?
• ?If I am treated in an unfriendly manner, I will go out and be friendly to others who need a friendly word.?
• ?If I am lied to, I will double my efforts to be truthful with others.?
• ?If I am ignored, I will go out and listen to those who need a supportive ear.?
• ?If I am spoken to harshly, I will go out and speak softly to others in need of a gentle word.?

Note that I frequently use the phrase ?go out? in the previous statements. This use makes the point that you must actively go out or seek a person or situation where you can bequeath the opposite of what you were given. Merely thinking it won?t do. To affect the energy systems around you, you must react to negatives by giving the opposite positive action.

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Step 3. Changing Your Reactions To Negative Life Circumstances

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Dr. B

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